A vs. The: Who Wins? (A Smith Weds The Struth)

Tara Bray Smith
The author Tara Bray Smith and her bookcover.

Didja hear that Thomas Struth got married this weekend? He did. I know this is true because I read it in the New York Times. He married the woman above, Tara Bray Smith. Tara’s a writer, she wrote a memoir called West of Then. I read this book and it’s good. I think I cried more than once, and I remember parts of it clearly which is a very good sign because I have a mind like a sieve. (I’m a great person to rent a movie with, anything viewed more than 6 months ago is basically new to me.) Anyhow. They got hitched. I saw the announcement and then got brought up short at the very first line:

Tara Bray Smith, a writer, and Thomas Struth, the photographer, were married yesterday by the Rev. Vernon Nichols, a Unitarian Universalist minister, at the Church Center for the United Nations in New York.

I know Thomas is considerably more famous than Tara, sure. But I’m not quite sure that warrants her being “a author” while Struth gets to be “the photographer”. Is there a style guide for this? A check list? Sure, Struth is famous (and in case you haven’t heard his photographs are quite large) and he had a big retrospective at the Metropolitan Museum of Art, one of our more venerated institutions. But Tara wrote a book! And it was published by Simon & Schuster. And it was good (several reputable publications seem to agree with me on that.) It’s not like she self-published a poetry chapbook and is writing an advice column on some blog. And let’s face it she’s better than book hot, she’s a stone cold fox. Would she have fared better in the “a vs. the” war had she married some recently minted Yale photo MFA? In that case I bet she’d so totally be “the writer” marrying “a photographer”.

So what qualifies you to be “the” instead of “a”? If I happened to marry “the photographer” and was relegated to being merely “a gallery” owner, I’d be pissed. Then again: do they write these announcements themselves and then submit them? Maybe she herself is complicit in the “a vs. the” decision? (That would scandalize me, for real.) There is so much I don’t know about the intricacies of the NYT wedding announcements!

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